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Sunday, March 3, 2013

Birthday Month

Another week has passed and we are still waiting to hear from Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh to see if they are willing to even consider seeing Izzy in person. I did hear from Dr. Cutler earlier this week though. The hold up right now is getting all of Izzy's records to Pittsburgh. They want reports and test results from every single one of Izzy's specialists. If you've been following this page for any length of time, you know that list is extensive. Thankfully, Dr. Cutler is the person gathering everything for us. And the only stuff she is waiting on is records from Children's Hospital of Michigan and Mott, but I have a feeling it is more CHM. (We love everyone there dearly, but getting records can be like pulling teeth!)

After Pittsburgh gets all of the records, Izzy will be presented to the board of doctors involved in making transplant decisions to see if they would even consider her for a heart-lung transplant. Many times, there are underlying pathologies (other than the heart and lung problems) that automatically "disqualify" a person from consideration of transplant. If Izzy's case passes that scrutiny, then we'll set an appointment for her to be seen in the clinic there to begin the "official" process of seeing whether she is a candidate for a heart-lung transplant. Either way, Dr. Cutler expects we should know whether we will make the trip to Pittsburgh by the end of this month.

In the meantime, we try to maintain some sense of normalcy. Unfortunately, Izzy got sick again Friday night/Saturday morning. She has a lung infection with a nasty cough. Luckily, we always have oral steroids in the house for her. She managed to get away from the doctor's office yesterday morning without a shot (a big deal)! We're still fighting fevers and her oxygen is hovering too low for comfort (around 90). Thankfully, she has remained fairly comfortable and we haven't officially gotten below 90% oxygen saturation when I've measured, so we haven't had to make the obligatory trip to the ER. (Going there would land her in the hospital for at least a couple of days and probably add more bugs for her immune system to fight.)

When Izzy's fever is gone, she is pretty happy. These pics were taken yesterday, right after Izzy came home from the doctor and found oodles and oodles of new toys dropped off by friends!




And if you were to stop by our house right now, Izzy would make you come down to my office and look at the pile of pink.


Izzy's 5th birthday is two weeks from today and we are having the pinkest party ever--complete with all pink foods, including shrimp, strawberry lemonade, and pink cupcakes (all Izzy's choices). Izzy is beyond excited to turn 5. She keeps telling us that she is a big girl now that she'll be 5. We have kindergarten roundup on the 20th as well and Izzy is READY for kindergarten. She so wants to go to school with her big brother! This turning 5 business and being a big girl has helped some in the behavior department. Izzy had been showing escalating anger since we heard that the cardiologists would not be trying to "fix" her heart any more. She had been having frequent violent outbursts, lots of screaming, and HUGE fits. Tuesday was especially bad. But after a huge fit, Izzy and I talked about how big girls aren't mean to the people they care about. And we discussed that just because you are sick, sad, or angry, it was not a reason to be mean. That was the first moment that she showed some clear understanding that her anger was related to the doctor's news. She went to sleep after that and has been much more well behaved. I like to think it was because of the talk and the breakthrough, but it could have been that she had to spend an entire night without a pacifier (and please don't tell me she is too old for a pacifier--it calms her when she gets needle pokes at least once a week, it is her only comfort when she is sick, hurt, in the hospital or having tests and she can keep it forever if it helps her get through the days). Whatever the cause of her turnaround, I'm grateful because the more often she behaves, the more often we can offer positive reinforcement, so we can continue down this path toward less tantrums.

Thanks for checking in on Izzy,

Mel

14 Message(s) from Carepages


Posted Mar 6, 2013 8:46pm
I love the PINK...Go Izzy..Hugs and more hugs coming to all of you..
Love Elaine


Heart8Posted Mar 5, 2013 11:31am
Melonie, I have to say you made me laugh out loud, when I read 'don't tell me she's too old for a pacifer.' I can SOOOO relate and now at our house we are getting the whole 'what she's still not potty trained?' UGH Anyway, praying all goes well with the hospital and records situation and we will be praying for a safe trip and posititve report from Philly:)
cp: aubreeanne


Encourage_hugPosted Mar 4, 2013 2:01pm
I agree with 100% as long as she needs that pacifier for comfort, let her have it. She deserves it big time. Think of Izzy and pray for her often. Bless you all and extra blessings for Izzy.
Diana Bryant

Posted Mar 4, 2013 9:41am
In my thoughts and prayers daily <3

Posted Mar 3, 2013 10:55pm
Been thinking of you all.. I know things go slow and then go fast all at the same time.
Debbie, Zayne, and Zoe

Posted Mar 3, 2013 10:38pm
I love the pics of your precious Izzy and wish her a fabulous 5th and very pink B-day!! No explanation needed to anyone re:the paci. Mama knows best :-) ! Holding all of you close in thought and prayer.


Encourage_hugPosted Mar 3, 2013 10:21pm
Anybody in her situation deserves to have what ever makes it easier for them! I would have to have a book!! Prayers are with y'all.

Posted Mar 3, 2013 7:20pm
Hope you don't have to wait too long to hear from Pittsburg. I love all the pictures of Izzy and can't wait to read all about the super- pink party!!!
Kelly
cp: JacksHeartUpdate


Heart8Posted Mar 3, 2013 5:50pm
Always praying Mamma!!


Encourage_hugPosted Mar 3, 2013 4:50pm
You guys and Miss Izzy are always in my prayers. Even tho we have never met I've fallen in love with little Mizz Izzy! I love her spunk altho I know sometimes her behavior isn't acceptable I do understand that everyone hurts differently. Positive reinforcement is necessary for a family life.If the "paci" makes Izzy happy...why not? It has been a long journey full of pokes and constant appointments which is so hard on everyone. Praying that Pittsburg has some answers in the right direction. LOVE THE PINK BIRTHDAY PARTY PLANS!!!

Posted Mar 3, 2013 4:49pm
Happy Birthday to Izzie and best wishes to you all.
Best,
Song


Set1_rosePosted Mar 3, 2013 4:01pm
Happy almost birthday Izzy. Being a big girl is huge! Izzy has plenty to be angry about and as you know being angry isn't the issue, it is what to do with the anger and how to channel it in ways that are not hurtful to others or herself. Your love and patience will help her with that. Lots of love, June & David

Posted Mar 3, 2013 3:19pm
i would use a pacifier if i could get away with it!

Posted Mar 3, 2013 2:59pm
Thanks for the update. Prayers are with you always. Hope the Pittsburgh scene works out!!

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